The Bible says you shouldn’t let the sun go down while you’re still angry, but what if you feel like you have a right to be angry? There are two forms of anger - and how you handle each is different.

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Why The Boundaries Approach? (And Not the More Love Approach?)

Why take a boundaries and consequences approach to helping marriages instead of a love and kindness approach? Because it works! Here’s how the right approach can save you years of misery and unsuccessful attempts to have a good marriage.

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Is Your Relationship Making You Depressed? (The Link Between Codependency and Depression)

Feeling depressed? You might not have considered that THIS is what could be wrong.

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Justice (And How It Brings Peace)

It’s the chant of the protestors: No justice, no peace. Know justice, know peace. Here’s how to find justice and peace in your life and in your marriage.

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Is It My Fault That He's Angry? (My Counselor Said I'm Enabling Him)

Wondering if your spouse’s anger is your fault? If you work at keeping your spouse happy so he doesn’t get angry, it’s important to know the distinction between enabling and causing his anger - and how to stop.

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His Indifference is Destroying Our Relationship (Or is it me?)

If your husband is indifferent and doesn’t seem to care about your concerns, what can you do about it? Here are 3 ways you can spark change.

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How to Handle Someone’s Behavior (and Get Them to Change)

When you’ve tried everything to deal with someone’s mean, rude, angry, or uncaring behavior, you might wonder what else you could do to handle their behavior. There is one thing you might not have thought of. And it could change everything.

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The 5 Stages of an Unhealthy Relationship

There are stages to unhealthy relationships. Find out what stage you’re in and get tips to help you successfully navigate the stage you’re in.

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7 Mistakes That Are Ruining Your Relationship (You definitely do #7)

If your relationship isn’t getting better even though you’re doing these things, they might actually be ruining your relationship. Learn what to do instead to make your relationship better, more mutual, and healthier.

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How to Help Your Husband Be A Better (Man, Husband, Father)

Does your husband need to be a better husband or father? Does he suffer from depression, anxiety, or an addiction? Find out how to help him be a better man.

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When Every Special Day Is Ruined (5 Survival Tips for Special Days With Your Spouse)

Does every special day with your spouse get ruined because someone gets upset? These 5 steps will help you survive those special days - and maybe even save the rest of them from ruin.

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My Husband Won't Stop Looking At Porn

Pornography is common, even in the church; but common doesn’t make it OK. The Bible says that one who sins sexually sins against his own body. So what is a spouse to do when she discovers that her husband is looking at pornography? And what if he doesn’t stop?

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What Does The Bible REALLY Say About Divorce?

When you’re faced with divorce, you want to know what the Bible really says about it. Many in the church say that the Bible says “don’t do it,” but is that thinking the result of living for God’s love or from it? Does God want us to sacrifice ourselves on the altar of marriage? Let’s search Scripture together to see what God says about the D-word . . . and what it doesn’t say.

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Where The Marriage Experts Get It Wrong

Have you gotten advice from marriage experts that seems like it should work to improve your marriage, but it doesn’t? There is a lot of advice out there. Who is it for? And where are they getting it wrong?