Forcing God’s Plan and Creating an Ishmael

Remember what happened when Abraham and Sarah tried to make God's plan happen before God's timing? They had a son named Ishmael who turned out to be the enemy of God's plan and who continues to work against all that God has planned. In what ways are you creating an Ishmael in your marriage?

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Should You Pursue Your Spouse The Way God Pursues You?

God's goodness is running after me. It's the line in a song, but is it true that God is chasing us down, pursuing you with his love? If God does it for you, then should you pursue your spouse the way God chases after you? Let's dig into Scripture to find out.

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The Best Gift Your Spouse Can Give You

Have you ever approached a holiday, occasion, or celebratory day and thought “All I want is for this day to feel special and not end with someone being upset”? Sometimes the best gift you can get from your spouse on a special occasion is something that isn’t tangible. Here are some ideas to help you get what you really want.

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If You Think Your Spouse Is Changing, Here’s How To Know

So often I hear people say that they are seeing changes in their spouse. Slow down. Not so fast. When you think that someone is changing, here are some things to watch for.

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Can God Save My Spouse?

You’ve been praying for your spouse and tolerating their unloving behavior for a long time. Will God ever change them? God transformed Saul to Paul, could he do the same thing for your spouse?

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Help, My Spouse Is Angry (And So Am I)

The Bible says you shouldn’t let the sun go down while you’re still angry, but what if you feel like you have a right to be angry? There are two forms of anger - and how you handle each is different.

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Justice (And How It Brings Peace)

It’s the chant of the protestors: No justice, no peace. Know justice, know peace. Here’s how to find justice and peace in your life and in your marriage.

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How Can I Know If My Marriage Is Getting Better?

Have you wondered how marriages can fall apart after years and years of being together? Has your marriage been to the brink and now you’re trying again to make it work? Are you wondering if it will last this time? Let’s explore what’s gone wrong and how to make it right.

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5 Indicators That Your Spouse Is Actually Sorry (And How to Tell if They’re Not)

Tired of apologies but no change in behavior? Here are 5 indicators that someone is actually sorry. And 5 ways to tell if they’re not.

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Do I Have To Forgive? (The Answer May Surprise You)

It's hard to know how to forgive, especially when someone has hurt you over and over and there is no apology. If forgiving someone who has hurt you doesn't feel right or is not an option, this article will provide you with clarity about what the Bible really says about forgiveness and a solution to the anger and bitterness you feel.

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