Posts in marriage helpers
Marriage: Covenant Or Contract? (And Why It Doesn't Matter)

Marriage is a covenant, not a contract. You hear that a lot. But what does that really mean? And is the accepted definition of the word covenant accurate? And does it matter? Let’s go to Scripture to find out.

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Why The Boundaries Approach? (And Not the More Love Approach?)

Why take a boundaries and consequences approach to helping marriages instead of a love and kindness approach? Because it works! Here’s how the right approach can save you years of misery and unsuccessful attempts to have a good marriage.

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The One Question That Reveals What’s Wrong in a Marriage (And it’s not a marriage problem)

Are you a pastor or counselor who would like one simple question to ask that will reveal what’s wrong in a marriage? The answer to this question will forever change how you counsel couples. You can’t counsel unhealthy marriages as though they have the capacity to be healthy. Here’s what you should do instead.

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