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Biblical Reasons For Divorce

What are the Biblical grounds for divorce? Many people who ask this question deeply desire to do God’s will. The answer you get will usually consist of “adultery, abandonment, or abuse” (or some variation of those). But let’s consider how Jesus answers that question.

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Are You Suffering For Doing Good? (Or Are You Suffering For Tolerating Wrong?)

It’s really hard to feel verbally and emotionally beaten down every day and still count it all joy no matter how you are treated. The Bible says that it’s commendable to suffer for doing good, but it’s really hard to endure. So let’s look at what it really means to suffer for doing good.


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Honoring Parents When They Don't Deserve It

The Bible says “honor your father and mother” - but what if they aren’t honorable? What if they don’t deserve it? Is there an exception to that command? And, if not, how do you honor someone who isn’t honorable? And how do you teach your children to do the same?


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How to Deal with a Narcissist (You’re Doing It Wrong)

So the narcissist in your life has you spinning and you need some tips on how to deal with a narcissist. No matter what you say you can’t get through to him. You can’t reason with him. You can’t get him to understand your perspective. And it’s upsetting. You’ve been trying to deal with the narcissist in all the wrong ways (obviously). Here is the best way to deal with a narcissist.


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How Do People Become Narcissists? (And Abusive)

What causes someone to be a narcissist? If you are close to someone who uses control, gaslighting, manipulation, anger, yelling, physical violence, or any other number of control tactics, it can help to know how they got that way - and what, if anything, can make them change. .

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Is My Spouse Abusive? (He/She is Really Great, but Sometimes…)

What does abuse look like? And can it happen in Christian marriages? Become aware of the subtle red flags of abusive character, understand how people become abusive, and learn what to do about it.

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