Are you a pastor or counselor who would like one simple question to ask that will reveal what’s wrong in a marriage? The answer to this question will forever change how you counsel couples. You can’t counsel unhealthy marriages as though they have the capacity to be healthy. Here’s what you should do instead.

Are you giving authority to people in your life who do not guide you well? Do you have to submit to the authority of your pastor? What to do when “godly counsel” is making things worse.