What causes someone to be a narcissist? If you are close to someone who uses control, gaslighting, manipulation, anger, yelling, physical violence, or any other number of control tactics, it can help to know how they got that way - and what, if anything, can make them change. .

There’s a movement in DV (domestic violence) circles to stop using the term “victim.” But maybe we shouldn’t stop using that term. Here’s why.